Well, I had a conversation with my son, JayCee age 15. Okay, so I can't do the girl thing with my daughter as she's only three. So, anyway. This is how the convo went...
Me: I need a make-over.
Me: I want to look cool. Do you think I could be cool? (wrong question to ask)
JayCee: Were you cool in high school?
Me: Well, yeah...No, not really.
JayCee: Well then it ain't going to work.
Needless to say, I left it alone after that.
Moral of the story, as my muse likes to point out to me: Don't be something you're not. Be true to who you are. That and don't ask dumb questions...especially to your kids, or anyone's kids as they happen to be brutally honest. =)